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St. Joseph and Homeschooling Fathers

St. Joseph and Homeschooling Fathers

In some ways, St. Joseph is a forgotten saint. Not because we don’t know who he is, but because we don’t know a whole lot about him. He doesn’t say one word in the Holy Bible, his actions speak for him, and he disappears entirely after the finding of Jesus in the Temple. During his lifetime, his influence and guidance occur mainly behind the scenes.

Despite all this, he is a model of faith, obedience, loyalty, and charity, as well as a great source of strength and support in all our needs. He is invoked by workers, by and for the dying, for the Church, and for families in his capacity as patron saint. He is a role model for men in general and for fathers in particular, especially homeschooling fathers.

Why especially homeschooling fathers?

Although more and more fathers are taking an increasingly active and hands-on role in the education of their children, they can sometimes seem to be, or to feel, pushed to one side or forgotten in the day-to-day business of homeschooling.

Circumstances may dictate that their presence be relegated to the hours after they return home from work and to weekends, while Mom or Grandma, or whomever the primary teacher is, takes center stage the rest of the time. But Dad’s importance cannot be overstated – even while it might be of a different type.

St. Joseph is not heard in the Bible, but we are told that he was a carpenter, or perhaps more accurately a stonemason or someone who works with his hands. In any event it is certain that he would have taught Jesus his trade.

We are also told that St. Joseph was an upright and obedient man who loved and protected his family no matter what the personal cost might be. Even though Jesus is the Son of God, St. Joseph modeled for Him how a man should behave in any given situation. Mary and Jesus depended on him and St. Joseph did not let them down. He was always there for them.

Homeschooling fathers have the same responsibility to their families. At the risk of sounding reactionary or corny, while Mom is the heart of the family, Dad is the head. His support is vital if homeschooling is to succeed.

How Dad Can Help

If Dad’s at work all day, how can he help with homeschooling?

  • Show support for the decision to homeschool. In our family, when we first started, my husband’s job didn’t allow him to get overly involved in the day to day homeschooling of our girls, but he always showed his interest and support by attending daily Mass with us if possible, asking about their day, and when applicable, by looking over some of the girls’ work work with them.
  • Find ways to be involved. My husband was the ‘principal’ of our little school. The girls would give him daily reports, both good and bad. If something was extra good, or on those rare occasions, extra ‘bad’, they were allowed to call their father at work. On days when calling him was not possible, they would tell him as soon as he got home and had a moment to relax. Needless to say, they loved telling him the good, but they hated having to tell him when they did something wrong. Even though he was not at home during the day, he became a deterrent to naughty behavior. He was present in spirit.
  • When possible show an interest in the children’s studies or be otherwise involved in their lives. Be available to answer questions. Read them a bedtime story. Take a walk together. Be part of a family game night. Teach them a skill.
  • Model the behavior you would like to see them exhibit. This is important for both boys and girls, especially so that boys know how to treat girls, and so girls will know how they should be treated by boys.
  • Let both teacher and students know how proud you are of them. Reward the primary teacher and students somehow when goals are met.

Now that we have highlighted how important fathers are, maybe we should consider how we can show them how much we appreciate them, especially with Father’s Day just around the corner.

Showing Appreciation

Here are a few ideas:

Thank Dad for all he does for you and the rest of your family (for the roof over your head, for the food you eat, for bringing you up in the Faith, for letting you homeschool).

  • Pray for him. Give him a spiritual bouquet of prayers, Rosaries, Masses, and Holy Hours or adoration visits.
  • Make him a card.
  • Make him a meal.
  • Have a Mass said for him.
  • Learn a skill Dad enjoys and then do it with him.
  • Mow the lawn.
  • Take out the trash without being asked.
  • Make a coupon book of tasks and activities he can redeem that you will do with, or for, him.
  • Don’t forget to wish him a very happy Father’s Day.

Prayer to St. Joseph

Prayer to St. Joseph

Oh, St. Joseph, whose protection is so great, so strong, so prompt before the throne of God. I place in you all my interests and desires. Oh, St. Joseph, do assist me by your powerful intercession, and obtain for me from your divine Son all spiritual blessings, through Jesus Christ, our Lord. So that, having engaged here below your heavenly power, I may offer my thanksgiving and homage to the most loving of Fathers.

Oh, St. Joseph, I never weary of contemplating you, and Jesus asleep in your arms; I dare not approach while He reposes near your heart. Press Him in my name and kiss His fine head for me and ask him to return the Kiss when I draw my dying breath. St. Joseph, Patron of departing souls – Pray for me.

Prayer for Earthly Fathers

Prayer for Earthly Fathers

Most gracious Heavenly Father, We thank you for our earthly fathers, those to whom you have entrusted the responsibility to provide loving protection of their families and guidance of their children. We thank you, also, for our priests and bishops, whose spiritual fatherhood is so vital to the faith of your people.

May our earthly fathers imitate the manly courage of Abraham, Jesse and Joseph, and all the holy fathers of the past in providing wise counsel to the children you have given to their care. And may our spiritual fathers be guided by the examples of Saints Peter and Paul, all the Apostles and their saintly successors. Give them valiant faith in the face of confusion and conflict, hope in time of trouble and sorrow, and steadfast love for you, for their families, and for all your people throughout the world.

Assist all fathers of families, all spiritual fathers, and all Christian men, that through your Grace they may steadily grow in holiness and in knowledge and understanding of your Truth. May they generously impart this knowledge to those who rely on them.

As you, our Heavenly Father, so loved the world, sending your only Son to be our Savior and Redeemer, we ask you to help all men to imitate His fatherly gentleness and mercy toward those who are weak; His humility, perfect obedience to your Will, and fearless witness to your Truth. May their lives be examples to all of heroic faithfulness to you.

We ask your blessing on all those to whom you have entrusted fatherhood. May your Holy Spirit constantly inspire them with justice and mercy, wisdom and strength, fidelity and self-giving love. May they receive your Grace abundantly in this earthly life, and may they look forward to eternal joy in your presence in the life to come.

We ask this through Jesus Christ, your Son and Our Lord, AMEN.

About Marlicia Fernandez

Marlicia homeschooled her two children with Seton for fourteen years in Europe and in the USA. She has a BS in Special Education with concentrations in music and in psychology. Marlicia works for Seton in Special Services and Grading. Meet Marlicia
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